Legal Question in Family Law in Maryland
Joint custody visitation changes
I have joint custody of my 7 year old, with primary guardianship going to my ex wife. We have lived no more than 30 minutes apart for the last 4 years and we have an arrangement of every other holiday with my child. This year is my xmas, and i want to leave the state for 2 weeks, my ex says no because she says she gets my child on the 24 because thats how its always been. This arrangement has worked because we live so close, however, I am leaving the state for good next year and I will be away for xmas this year. What can I legally do to change the arrangement, and can I just take my child with me anyway since I have Joint custody?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Joint custody visitation changes
If an order of custody or visitation was entered as part of your divorce, then this order appears to require modification. The distance factor is a material change in circumstance, however your spouse is admitted as the "primary guardian". Arrangments made outside of court can be a basis to support a petition for modifying visitation. Consult an attorney.
Re: Joint custody visitation changes
Assuming you have already obtained your divorce from your ex-wife and a court has either ordered the visitation schedule you are using and/or has signed off on the schedule you all proposed to it, you can change the visitation schedule by filing a petition for change of visitation with your local circuit court. To obtain the change, you will have to prove to the court that there is a change in circumstances warranting the visitation change, and that the change is in the best interest of your child.
As far as whether you can/should leave the state with your child this Christmas, I would say that it depends on whether the Christmas holiday schedule is clear in your court order regarding the holidays. If it says that your ex has the child on Christmas Eve, I would not leave with the child as you do not want to violate a court order. If, on the other hand, the court gave you the child for the entire holiday period and it has just become customary for the child to spend Christmas Eve with your ex due to an arrangement set up between you and her, that may be a different situation. I would consult with an attorney before leaving state with the child, though.
I hope this helps.
Ranji Garrett
301-296-4474
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