Legal Question in Family Law in Maryland
POA not taking care of elderly person
Family member is a POA for another family member who has dementia and is not able to make decisions for self. She is currently in a nursing home. POA will not allow the persons funds to be used for personal belongings, clothes, etc. POA has taken TV, phone, personal belongings, new clothes out of facility. Person is able to benefit from these items. What recourse is there with this POA and could this be costly?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: POA not taking care of elderly person
You will have to file a court action to have the current POA removed. Whoever in the family (which can be more than 1) is willing to take responsibility can petition to be appointed as the legal guardian of the disabled person. You should also ask the court to order the POA to account for any assets he/she has converted to their own use. You definitely should retain an attorney to represent you, as this is a type of problem that requires specialized knowledge of the process and requirements. You can anticipate that it will cost $1000-2000, plus court costs.
Re: POA not taking care of elderly person
You need to petition the Circuit Court in your mother's county
for a guardianship. You and/or any other responsible
person can take on this duty. You will also need
to have the POA of the other person revoked and then,
if I were you, I would place all your mother's money
into a trust account that you and the new
guardians can access but which is not in your mother's
name (to avoid the possibility of the old PoA trying
to tap the funds). I have had banks give me a hard
time about this but if you lean on them they will eventually
come around.
Don't try to do this alone. You should use an
attorney familiar with the guardianship laws to help
you. The procedure is relatively straightforward
but if you don't do it right you run the risk of
violating your own duties as guardian (and there
are a number of duties you will need to be aware
of).
Best of luck to you. I recently had to have myself appointed
as guardian for my own mother so I know how difficult
this sort of thing is.