Legal Question in Family Law in Maryland

separation

I am interested in separating from my husband. Unfortunately, I have been a homemaker since our second child was born in 1996. This was a mutual agreement. I am willing to give him the house provided he buys out the division of the equity built thus far. He makes a six figure income. I am intersted in alimony also. Joint custody is fine for kids. My question is how can I possibly leave without any financial means. I am working on a masters degree in nutrition, but am at least a year or more away from finishing. Having not worked for so long, I also need to update many skills. I currently handle all aspects of running the household including the finances. As far as damaging history. He has had an affair and dabbles in internet pornography. I got hooked on sleeping pills after his affair and have been through counseling. I have tried to keep the marriage going, but I can no longer stand faking it. I do not want to live with this man. What are my options?


Asked on 5/17/04, 8:02 am

2 Answers from Attorneys
G. Joseph Holthaus III Law Offices of G. Joseph Holthaus

Re: separation

Your options are to pursue a separation agreement,

limited divorce, permanent divorce or simply to move

out without protecting your legal interest. Each option

has pros and cons.

Among relevant matters are: amount of equity in

the real estate, cash flow, age of children,

cost of education, your employment opportunity,

strength of evidence for adultery, insurance and tax

matters, and others.

You should contact an attorney to discuss your

situation.

My rate for a separation agreement is very reasonable. Contact me should you want to

move forward. Joe Holthaus (410) 799-9002

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Answered on 5/17/04, 9:42 am

Re: separation

Maryland has what is called use and possession. This allows the person who has custody of the minor children to live in the marital home for up to 3 years by requiring the dominant money maker to pay the expenses. Rehabilitive alimony will allow you to get your decree while still being supported. You may contact me for an initial free consultation.

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Answered on 5/18/04, 12:45 am


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