Legal Question in Family Law in Maryland
Threatening, unstable husband
My girlfriend is legally seperated from her husband, he is a Baltimore city policeman, her and I have been together for a year and a half, living with one another for a year.We just recently moved into a house in Baltimore county. He drives by the house every night to see if my car is parked outside, if it is, he makes threatening calls to her in the middle of the night, saying he is going to come over, break the door down and cause harm to me. He is constantly harrassing her about us being together. Tis man seems to be unstable and she doesn't know what he is capable of doing. Him being a police officer doesn't make things easier either. What can be done about this before something bad happens? I need help!!!! What is the best course of action?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Threatening, unstable husband
You can do a couple of things. First of all, if
you are genuinely concerned for your safety then
you can go to district court and request a protective
order. This is one of those things that you
really don't need a lawyer for, although you may
want to consult one before proceeding. That's because
the district courts are pretty good about issuing
the initial protective order since it is only a
temporary measure. A week later you will have to
appear in court for a hearing where the accused
harasser will have a chance to appear. At that hearing
you might want to have an attorney present since
things can get complicated and if you aren't used to
the courts, they can also get very confusing.
In addition, you can also file a complaint for telphone
harassment. Again, this is something you can do
for yourself if you want to. But you will need to have
a certain level of proof. Call the phone company and
see if they can help you collect the evidence you will
need (records of calls, etc) and if other people have
heard the calls, all the better. Notice I did not
recommend recording the calls. That's what got
Linda Tripp in trouble...
Good luck to you and if you decide you need legal
counsel, give me or one of the other attorneys on
this board a call.