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Rights of separated wife vs. live-in companion

I was married and legally separated unitl 6/5/03. My husband died from cancer. We had been separated since 1987.

We have one 18 year daughter who is both his and my only child. My late husband had several lady friends but lived with one in particular. Other than his pension, he had a life insurance policy which he named his parents as the beneficiaries. His was the sole name on a home he was purchasing since 1994 valued at approximately $200,0000 which his companion still resides since his death. Since the separation agreement was drawn up in 1987, I'm not sure whether or not his pension was mentioned at that time, it is my belief that we chose not to address it at that time, the main purpose for drawing up the legal papers were to establish child support. I remember the attorney that I had retained telling me that I needed to think long and hard before I signed away my right to his pension. My question is, who is entitled to what and how do I find out if he had a will drawn up by a private attorney. I called Upper Marlboro, the section that handles wills and there was none on file. I feel that his daughter should be next in line for whatever he left behind, how should I proceed?


Asked on 6/18/03, 11:35 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

G. Joseph Holthaus III Law Offices of G. Joseph Holthaus

Re: Rights of separated wife vs. live-in companion

Open a petition for probate of his assets and title them in your name according to his will or under intestacy law. The first thing to do is to pull all the documents together. I am available to assist you. If you would like to discuss contact me at (410) 799-9002 or on voicemail at (410) 619-5918.

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Answered on 6/21/03, 5:17 pm
Thomas DeCaro DeCaro & Howell PC

Re: Rights of separated wife vs. live-in companion

Yes, I agree with you. In the absence of a

probated will, I recommend filing a petition for

probate and naming yourself as personal

representative, then asking the probate court to

have everything re-titled in your names. You

may have to open a separate estate for his parents

to collect the life insurance. As for the pension,

it depends on how the beneficiary is named, and

whether, if the beneficiary was changed after

your separation, the legal requirements of the

Retirement Equity Act (a law protecting legal

spouses) was met. There is a very high liklihood

that you stand to recover everything. If you want

to discuss this matter with us, please contact

us for a no-obligation meeting.

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Answered on 6/18/03, 4:45 pm


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