Legal Question in Family Law in Massachusetts
child custody
my son is 9 yrs old he resides unhappy in delaware w/father -stepmother 2step sibling and baby on the way. I am stable work, educated.and capable of supporting my son. my son want to live with me. What petition should i file ? father does not abide by court order. SECOND QUESTION i have primary custody for the summer and vaction how can i keep him if son wants to stay?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: child custody
Assuming there is an existing court order, and assuming that the child has been in Delaware for more than 6 months, the site for a modification or court action is in Delaware.
If you feel that the child is in risk of harm, not just unhappiness, then under some circumstances, you could file an action in Massachusetts.
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Re: child custody
You first need to see where to file. Many states have enacted the UCCJA, the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act, which specifies in which state any custody petition must be filed. Regardless of where you file, it is generally a Complaint for Modification that must be filed, stating that it is in the best interest of the child to live with you.
It is not a simple matter, however, to prove what the child's best interest is. Usually, it is best to have the judge appoint a guardian ad litem (investigator) to look into the matter. A 9-year-old's preference is not taken at face value. There needs to be some determination that the child's reasons for wanting to live with you are good ones.
You cannot keep your son at the end of the summer, for example, just because he wants to stay. That will put you in violation of the existing court order, and will severely prejudice your chances of obtaining custody.