Legal Question in Family Law in Massachusetts
family law-custody
My husband has full physical and shared legal custody of his two oldest children. They have lived with us as my own since they were babies. They are currently 11 and 12 and she is saying they want to live with her. We hired a children's lawyer who is saying that my 11 yr old wants to spend an hour more a week there and the 12 year old wants 3 days a week. They currently go one day a week. Can we file for dismissal since neither child is saying they want to live there?
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: family law-custody
Your husband should retain an attorney to oppose whatever action the biological mother has filed and perhaps request that the court appoint a guardian ad litem to determine the wishes of the children an what would be in their best interest. Good Luck!
Re: family law-custody
It depends on who filed the complaint for modification.
Re: family law-custody
If the children's attorney is a guardian ad litem; he/she will make a recommendation to modify visitation.
I would suggest if you do not have an attorney you get one immediately.
The issue is not only what the children want but why. It is also an issue on how this will impact the children's education.
Giving the children more time with their mother is not an unreasonable request, assuming the mother's behavior is appropriate.
As to dismissing the custody petition, it will only result into a change in visitation anyway.
Good Luck.
Re: family law-custody
The mother can "say" whatever she wants. The issue is, what has she done to make it a reality? Has she filed for a modification in the family courts?
If she has, I would ask the court to appoint a guardian ad litem at this point because the children are old enough to verbalize their thoughts and might be meaningful for the court to consider.