Legal Question in Family Law in Massachusetts
unfit parent acusasion
My ex and I are going to court in a few days. It is between him and I . His mom said to me she has somethings to say in court. Can she be present or can I ask the judge to not have her in the room because this is between her son and I? Also he has been abusive to me, drugs and alcohol. We have a son together. This was about 3 1/2 years ago. He just stepped back into his life a couple months ago. Thank you for your help.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: unfit parent acusasion
If the mother is accusing you of acts, habits or conditions which indicate a concern for your child's safety and well being (e.g., alleged substance use/abuse, other lifestyle situations which place the child at significant emotional or physical risk), --and-- can reasonably claim to be a percipient witness (that is, to have actual, first-hand knowledge of such things), the judge is going to allow her to speak to the probation ("family service") office. If such allegations have already been made and discredited by DCF (formerly DSS), the judge may be less interested.
Fitness is about caring for and protecting the child. It is a central issue in all custody and visitation matters. The court's central charge is to put the child's welfare first.