Legal Question in International Law in Massachusetts

The problem is jurisdiction. Since the Syrian man does not want the divorce or annulment, the problem is getting jurisdiction in another country. Your question is not one easily answered in a forum like this. You need a divorce attorney experienced in international divorces. I suggest you contact the Massachusetts Bar Association referral division and see if they can recommend someone to you. If not, I may know someone who can assist you with this. If you contact me directly, I will make a referral to another attorney who may be able to help you.