Legal Question in Sexual Harassment in Massachusetts

Re: car dealer harassed me??

Yes this is harassment. YOu have 300 days to bring a complaint to ghe MCAD (MAss Com Against Discrimination) or the EEOC.

Re: car dealer harassed me??

Do nothing else.

You've already done what is necessary.

You have withdrawn your business.

You have no proof. All you have is a "she said,

he said" case. You will waste your time and

money and emotions.

Remember that not only are there all kinds of

people in the world, each and every one of those people is still an "animal."

Animals respond to mating signals. Did you send him any signals?

Did you send him flirtatious signals?

If you feel you were appropriately dressed --

that is, not wearing one of those belly-button

exposing shirts or jeans -- and did not wiggle

or flash your beautiful eyes at him, then you might upon considerable introspection speak to his boss.

But remember, in the good old days, flirtation was an art. Marya Mannes wrote a wonderful essay entitled "The Art of Flirtation." You might want to read it.

You will also enjoy life more thinking,

"Isn't this great? I'm so appealing," and

walk away feeling flattered . . . even

though this guy was, to say the least, grossly

unappealing, grossly unattractive, and doltish. And some women might have even been delighted with the offer by him.

Be happy. Be less hyper-sensitive. And remember you are probably otherwise a great woman.

Go home and remind your husband how luck he is to have you.

Grandma