Legal Question in Family Law in Michigan

Re: Ex-husband and my rights

He has no right to be in your house without your permission. You can change the locks and go to court to get an order keeping him out. Bill Stern 248-353-9400

Re: Ex-husband and my rights

First of all, stop letting him into your home. You do NOT have to put up with this sort of behavior.

By letting him invade your space, you are ALLOWING him this sort of carry on. You have to stand up for yourself and not let it continue. Tell him that he can wait for the children on the doorstoop. No matter no embarassing it might be at the start, by laying down rules and insisting that he follow them, you'll be doing yourself and your children a favor. If he is seen to respect you, even in small measure, then your children will do then same, even if he tells them bad things about you when they're with him.

If you can't stand up for yourself, then it's a waste of time to get a court order, because at the end of the day, you're going to have to enforce it yourself.

Finally, if you need court intervention, then go back into divorce court and request a modification of visitation terms and conditions, to specifically change the exchange place to somewhere public. Few judges will insist that you exchange the children at your home, if it's that uncomfortable for you.