Legal Question in Family Law in Michigan

signing your rights away

my exgirlfriend had a baby and did not take me to court for child support till 5 years later.back child support is in the thousands.well she got married and her husband wants to adopt the kid which is find with me sinse i am not in his life and he is from the begginning.my ? is how long do they have to be married for me to beable to sign off and if i sign off will i still have to pay the back child support????


Asked on 6/17/06, 3:56 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

William Stern William Stern, P.C.

Re: signing your rights away

Just tell her that you will sign off on the adoption if she waives past due support. William S. Stern

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Answered on 6/18/06, 12:18 am
Lisa K. Prowse Prowse Law PLC

Re: signing your rights away

Your ex and her new husband could be married forever and it wouldn't affect your requirement to pay support. If her new husband wants to adopt the child, then you can agree, and your responsibility would stop at that point. There really is no "signing your rights away" unless it is signing adoption papers. If her new husband does not wish to adopt the child, and merely wishes to be a step-parent, you will have to pay until the child is at least 18.

Good luck!

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Answered on 6/17/06, 9:02 am
Lisa K. Prowse Prowse Law PLC

Re: signing your rights away

As to the back support: you would be responsible for paying support until such time as the support order was modified or the step parent adoption is confirmed. Once adoption is confirmed, child support obligation ends as of the date of termination of parental rights. The confirmation of adoption will eliminate the obligation to pay current support, but it will not eliminate back support without a court order to that effect.

The ex and her new husband can file a Petition for Step-parent Adoption in your county of residence. The filing fee is $150.00 to file the Petition for Adoption per child. Additional fees include $10.00 for the Order Confirming Adoption and $26.00 for the new Michigan birth certificates after the adoptions are finalized.

It usually takes four to six months to complete the adoption process.

Good luck!

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Answered on 6/17/06, 9:18 am


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