Legal Question in Family Law in Minnesota
can they adopt?
I have a 4 month old daughter that has been in temporary foster care since she was born. The county has placed her with my uncle until they find out where to put her permanatly this month. The county will be terminating my parental rights next month. The place she is at right now isn't a safe place and I wish for her not to be there right now or permanatly when they decide where to put her. I have some good friends that are interested in adopting the baby who I know will keep her safe. This case is being handled as a ICWA case so my daughter would go to family first. I do not aprove of that. Do I have any say in this matter? Could I possibly choose where I think is best for her and have her adopted my some people I know that will take good care of her for me? My social worker says I don't but I think I should. Can you help me figure this out please? Thank you,
Jessica
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: can they adopt?
I know little about the ICWA, but I have been involved in numerous actions to terminate parental rights. My impression would be that if your parental rights are about to be terminated, you are in no position to call the shots. Until your rights are terminated, you get to attend all the hearings. You should express your concerns there.
The last time I had one of these cases, the mother was appointed a free attorney paid for by the state - a public defender or someone similar. Also there was a guardian ad litem appointed to watch out for the best interests of the child. If the child does not have a guardian ad litem, ask that one be appointed - but I am sure there already is. They wouldn't do this without a guardian.
You get to state your concerns, but you can't give up your rights and keep control of what happens to the child. If you want to try to stay in the loop as to what goes on with this child, agree to give up custody if you must; but resist giving up parental rights. When you give up parental rights, it is as if that child was never born as far as you are concerned.
Good luck.
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