Legal Question in Family Law in Minnesota
Change Custody and Child Support
My ex has agreed to grant sole physical custody to me (which she previously had). The change has been made and my 2 daughters have been with me for several months.
Being the change was agreed upon by my ex and wanted by my daughters, do I have to file a motion to make it legal or are there other ways to do this?
As far as child support, do I have to file a motion for this change as well...I do want it garnished from her wages.
If we are in agreement on these 2 issues, do motions need to be filed or are there other means to make it legally binding?
Thank you.
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Change Custody and Child Support
You will need to file a motion and obtain a court order modifying custody and support. Otherwise, you will not be able to enforce her child support obligation, and you will continue to accumulate arrears yourself.
In some cases, custody orders can be difficult to change. Minnesota law, however, provides that you do not need to prove something extreme like endangerment or impairment of the child, if the children have come to live with the noncustodial parent with the custodial parent's consent. You will still need to establish, to the court's satisfaction, that the change was consented to by the other parent. The court will still have the power to deny the motion even then, but unless the custody arrangement is detrimental to the children for some reason, the change will most likely be approved under such circumstances.
Tom James
(320) 286-6425
Re: Change Custody and Child Support
You should file a motion to modify custody and child support. Without out formally changing custody and child support, you verbal agreement is not enforceable. In some cases, however, it might make sense to not push the issue immediately. I recommend you speak to an attorney regarding this matter.