Legal Question in Family Law in Minnesota

Getting custody back

When my ex-wife and I divorced, I was on active duty in the Army; for that reason alone she was given custody of our two children. I have been a civilian for a few years now, and circumstances have changed drastically. We've both remarried; she and her husband of two years are divorcing, so now she has no possessions, no way to get a good job (no HS diploma) to support the kids, and is being forced to live in her brother's basement. She refuses to let them stay with me for fear of losing them (and the $600 monthly payments). I'm working a good job, finishing up my degree, and my wife and I have a safe, happy and stable home. What are my chances of getting custody returned to me? What do I need to do?


Asked on 6/03/09, 2:17 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Valerie Arnold Arnold, Rodman, & Pletcher, PLLC

Re: Getting custody back

In general, to modify custody post-decree without the other parent's consent, you will need to establish that:

1. there has been a change of circumstances with respect to a party or the child;

2. that modification of custody is necessary to serve the best interests of the child;

3. that the child's present environment endangers the child's physical or emotional health or impairs the child's emotional development; and

4. the harm likely to be caused by a change of environment is outweighed by the advantage of a change to the child.

The process is commenced by filing a motion in district court with a supporting affidavit (or multiple affidavits) explaining how you meet the above standard. If the mother is actively denying you parenting time, this may serve as an additional basis to file for a change in custody.

The likelihood of success would depend upon the specific facts of your case and whether the Court would find that the current circumstances rise to the level of endangerment as required by statute.

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Answered on 6/03/09, 2:34 pm
Maury Beaulier612.240.8005 Minnesota Lawyers

Re: Getting custody back

The standard for a modification of custody is much higher than an initial determination of custody. Under Minnesota law, you must file a Motion with sufficient supporting evidence and affidavits for the court to believe that there has been a change of circuumstance since the last order and that the present custody arrangement endangers the child physically emotionally or developmentall AND that the benefit of any change outweighs the harm.

This is a significant burden and must be evaluated based on a totality of circumstances. Generally, simply being in a better financial condition would be insufficient without tying that issue into some demonstrable negative impact on the children.

For a consultation call 612.240.8005.

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Answered on 6/03/09, 3:09 pm


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