Legal Question in Family Law in Minnesota

Mediation - Child Custody

I received a paternity decree from my ex requesting to change physical custody from me (being sole provider) to joint physical custody. I don't agree with the outlined arrangements due to my ex's unstable environment. If I don't respond in a week, the letter from the lawyer stated they would move forward with Mediation arrangements. Do I have to go to mediation? If so, should I retain a lawyer? Pros/cons of going? Thank you!


Asked on 11/29/07, 1:31 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Michael Paul Cundy & Paul, L.L.C.

Re: Mediation - Child Custody

Mediation is not a bad thing. The meeting is confidential and a mediator has no authority to make you agree to something you do not want to do. However, it may be worth it for you to speak to an attorney prior to going to mediation. That way you will be prepared to defend yourself against your ex's demands. We offer a free intial consultation. Please contact me if you would like to discuss this further.

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Answered on 11/29/07, 1:41 pm
Gerald Williams Williams Divorce and Family Law

Re: Mediation - Child Custody

Unless there has been domestic abuse in the relationship, a party who does not cooperate with mediation makes a bad impression on the court. Whether to retain an attorney may be a decision that you make after a mediation session. But it would serve you well to consult with an attorney in conjunction with the mediation. Please feel free to follow up with me at my website www.divorcelawyermn.com or directly by email at [email protected].

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Answered on 11/29/07, 1:42 pm


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