Legal Question in Criminal Law in Missouri

If somoen tells a false thing about you to someon else, that harms yrou reputation with that person, you can sue them for slander. If the statement is true, then you would have to prove they only divulged the negative information to harm you. In this case, it appears that your Son requested information through their friend. The PO seems to have reported back to the friend the truthful statement of the crime you were charged with. That information may have been a public record. If so, then it appears that your Son's friend was acting as an agent of your Son when he requested the information from the PO. Unless you can show that you were harmed, is seems unlikely that you have a viable claim against your Son, his friend or the PO. If the arrest was improper, you might have a claim against the arresting officers. The facts of each case can change the analysis. If you are still interested, you should seek counsel directly from an attorney in your area. who can have access to the precise facts of your case. There may be a limited time in which you can make any of these claims.

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