Legal Question in Immigration Law in Missouri

I want to know if there is an abuse when my husband lock me out of the door /

I met my husband through net feb 2005 and I came here as tourist sep 2005 then we got married feb 2006. our marriage has not been consummated because my husband is satisfied of masturbating watching video tapes while I am lying on the bed beside him. sometimes he will stay in his office with the internet doing sex with other ladies online while I am waiting inside our bedroom to have sex with him. I think he only married me because he wants somebody to take care of him when he becomes old . he said he don't want to be in nursing home. he is 70 years old now but still so mean person.he keeps on saying that I stole his money that he sent to my country when I was still there so I can come to USA and meet him. he said I fraud him because I did not bring all back the money that he sent me last 2005. when I stayed with him he threw my belongings at the hallway and he said that I can go back to where I came from, every time we argue he will say that he will tell the immigration to deport me . he casted me out of his home for 30 times. he said I can go back and he don't care for me. i did not left him because I want to show that my intention to marry him was in good faith because I love him. also I want to have gratitude because of what he did to me and my kids that he petition us to become immigrant. but I think this is too much because every time we argue he will tell me and my kids to left and leave him alone. he always said that he will tell the immigration to deport us.our marriage is miserable because the way he treated me. he did not give me a key to his house. there are time that when I went home from work I have to knock and when we had an argument he will not open the door so I have to stay outside the house inside my car. he always told me before to buy a new house because his house is small for us. I decided to buy a house for myelf and kids because living with him is like a hell. we cannot move freely in his house. my kids cannot watch tv or sit in his living room. when I first got to his house he has 4 computers for himself and I don;t have anything. but whenever he is mad he locked up all his 4 computers with him inside his office and chatting to ladies online. so I bought a big house and asked him to have his house rented out so he can still have money he agreed of what I suggested and eventually move to hat I bought. but after a week he move out to my house and go back to his house he said he is not comfortable to live in my house. I think the reason is he is scared that I will be treating him the way he treated me in his house.now he is living by himself. it is only his thought. he was verbally abusive to me he calls me lots of different names. he don;t have any friend at all . he will not answer the phone when he is not in the mood . we are still married and I always call him and go to his house almost everyday to check on him that he is doing ok. but sometimes he will not open the door.he never give me key of his house because he said he did not go away anyway. when I first got here to USA he only take me to grocery store I feel like I am in prison I only look at the window to see people down the street.he never took me out for dinner . he is getting good money because of his pension .you think there is an abuse ? and what is the best thing to do. I don't want to divorce him because I owe him a gratitude without him me and my kids will not be here in USA. but sometimes I am thinking that it is just too much. when we stayed in his house he threw our important things even important documents to trash. when I come to visit him in his house I get my mails at the trash. and when it is not in the trash he will hand my mails already open.please advise;

lady35

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