Legal Question in Juvenile Dependency in Missouri

Re: minors dating adults (missouri Laws)

The laws that touch on yound adults engaging in sexual acts with older minors are clear as to the stautory rape framework. I think you know that, otherwise you would not have written. The prosecution uner those statutes are in flux, as to fact patterns like what you describe. If he is actively showing that he intends to provide financially for the child, the state's interest in prosecuting him may be diminished. The state's main interest is in preventing children from being put on state aid, and to prevent the molestation of children (you). The fact that your mother consented to yoru dating this man, may lessen her willingness to press charges agaisnt him. But, the State decides whether to prosecute, not you or your parents.

Legal stuff aside, you are in a dilemna just being 17 and pregnant. Of course you want to consider your options. However, I suggest you discuss your options with your parents as soon as possible. IF you do not feel it is safe to divulge your situation by yourself, find an adult that your parents trust to help you tell them. This may lessen the liklihood that things get uglier than they already are. You need your parent's guidance and view point more now thatn probably ever. The decisions you now make will affect yours and your family's lives for many years to come.