Legal Question in Family Law in Montana
My ex just took our 13 year old daughter on a "vacation" from Montana to Texas. Apparently, without my knowledge, she was planning on moving there and has told me that she wants our daughter to stay with her. We have joint custody and my two weeks begins in a few days and my ex is not willing to pay for her to come home. We also have a 15 year old son that she has chosen not to take with her. Of course, I'm happy to have him live with me full time, but I am not willing to give up custody of our daughter. What should I do?
1 Answer from Attorneys
When you say you have joint custody, I'm assuming you have a court order establishing that arrangement. Do you have a parenting schedule, too? If you have a "parenting plan" or other document that spells out a schedule -- for instance, the children will reside with Mother on these days of the week, and with Father those days of the week, that court document requires each parent to have the children available for the other parent's time. Also, state law requires that when a parent intends to move, that parent must give the other 30 days' notice of intent to move and provide a proposed new parenting plan.
So the short answer is: If you have court-ordered parenting, and one parent violates the order, the wronged parent can seek the court a court order for the violating parent to return the children. The wronged parent can enlist the aid of law enforcement to help enforce the order and help you retrieve the children. In your motion for the court ordered return of the children, you can also ask for an order requiring the violating parent to reimburse your costs in retrieving the child(ren).