Legal Question in Family Law in Montana
What happens when one parent does not follow the parenting plan signed by the ju
We had a parenting plan drawn up with the basic things like days, availablity to the other parent, income tax every other year, etc. The other parent has not followed any of the parenting plan and says she doesn't care what it says. We have let it go since December 2000 and it is just getting worse. She has told us that since we claimed the child this year for income taxes that we will not get to see the child on our weekend. In the parenting plan it states that the odd year was our year to claim her so we did. We have had problems with head lice, diaper rashes when the child comes to our house. Also she has had 2 DUI's in the last year and a half, which she has now quit her jobs and is collecting welfare. What do we do?
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Re: What happens when one parent does not follow the parenting plan signed by th
Sounds like you need to haul her back to court on a motion to hold her in contempt which, at least in Montana, can include a threat of $500 for each act of contempt and/or 5 days in jail. And, in Montana, she has no right to refuse visitation even if you were not complying with tax and/or child support requirements. A parent who is not willing to share the child can, in some cases, then lose primary custody so, if it was in Montana, she potentially could have a lot to lose by acting this way. Have you reported any of your concerns to the local child welfare agency? If you think the child is not being cared for properly, sometimes it can be helpful to get them involved although generally I would not recommend that because then you have to deal with what can be a very invasive agency that can abuse its powers. In terms of the DUIs, she probably does not have either valid driver's license or insurance and here you could insist that she not drive with the child unless she is legal and if she cannot do that, could be yet one more reason to change primary custody. Good luck but unless she'll talk to you, your only real remedy is going back to court. Make sure you ask for attorney fees. Even if she's on welfare or whatever, if you get fees, you'll have a judgment against her that will or should be good for 10 years so you can then just wait til she does get a job, or execute on her tax refund, bank account, etc.. Seek legal advice in your area.