Legal Question in Family Law in Nevada

It would take longer to explain than can really go into an e-mail, but the short version is that community property division is of one of that property that accrued during the marriage. On the facts you post, 1/2 x 3.5 divided by 20 (or your actual length of military service. A very small percentage. And not applicable to disability pay.

A complete discussion of division of military retirement can be reviewed in my article "Divorcing the Military: How to Attack, and How to Defend," posted at http://www.willicklawgroup.com/military_retirement_benefits.

But to actually get an idea how things are likely to play out, you should schedule a consultation with a family law expert trained in military-related divorce. Good luck!