Legal Question in Criminal Law in New Jersey

My boyfriend had abused me physically, tried to scare me by pinching on my vagina and then abused me again(kept pushing me by grabbing my neck) so i would leave the room. Later as i tried leaving, he broke my car. I had tried talking to his family to get him and help me pay for my car damages, they would not help me (This is the second time he broke my car). I had gone back to my house and called the cops and explained them what exactly happened. They got me an emergency restraining order, charged with terrorist threats, sexual assault and couple other things. Now he has a warrant out for his arrest. I don't think putting him in jail is the solution or what i actually wanted. I only wanted him to get an anger management help and for him to pay me damages for my car. Is there any way, i can just take everything back? i don't want him to go to jail. He is only 22 years old(He lied to me about his age, what he does, his family, everything..) and hasn't even started his life. Please help me!


Asked on 11/11/10, 3:22 am

2 Answers from Attorneys
Robert Davies The Davies Law Firm, P.A.

I have been an attorney for 26 years. I have helped many women who have been physically abused, as you have been. I am familiar with abuse situations, and no matter what the details, it is always ugly and painful.

I understand that you want to drop all charges. I am familiar with this area of law, and can assist you if you wish. Call me to make an appointment. I will not charge you any money for the first meeting, and I will tell you what I can do to assist you.

Let me also say:

You need to speak to a professional counsellor, and get some assistance. You have been hurt, and need some assistance.

Give me a call, make an appointment to come see me, and let's get moving on this for you.

Robert Davies, Esq. 201-820-3460

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Answered on 11/16/10, 7:22 am
SAUL SEGAN SAUL H SEGAN ATTY AT LAW

Calll Women Against Abuse before you decide to drop any charges. These situations generally get worse, not better, amd you have to ask yourself why you think you deserve only someone who would abuse you. There is a lot of counseling that you need as much as this not-so-loving boyfriend.

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Answered on 11/18/10, 4:43 pm


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