Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
2nd mtg
My wife has been telling me she is going to leave or stay a make me misarable. Recently she has asked to consolidate approx 20k in credit card debit. I will not agree to the 2nd mtg knowing i will be filing. Can she force me and/or can she get one on her own? If so whats my liability.
5 Answers from Attorneys
Re: 2nd mtg
If you own the home together as husband and wife she cannot force you to agree to a 2nd mortgage.
Good luck to you.
Re: 2nd mtg
She can not mortgage the house without your participation
Call me if you like.
Gary Moore, Esquire
Hackensack, New Jersey
www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com
Re: 2nd mtg
She can not force you to get the loan. If the mortgage is in her name alone she can take second mortgage out in her name and if she does then it would be considered marital debt (unless you can prove that it was her debt only and that you or the house did not benefit from it.)
Re: 2nd mtg
Just to echo the comments by the other attorneys, Get out now!
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Re: 2nd mtg
Do not agree to anything until you get a divorce attorney to advise you.
Now, dont take this wrong, but let me summarize:
you are in the middle of a divorce. You have to deal with it very soon. yes, you are facing divorce.
You have a job.
you have children, and child support and college tuition needs to be paid. That is measured in tens of thousand of dollars.
Nothing that an attorney can say over this bulletin board can come close to helping you solve your problems. Careless actions by you will likely cost you thousands of dollars, make your life more difficult, and possibly cause additional harm to the child.
Hire an attorney. Go see an experienced divorce attorney located reasonably near you, and pay the attorney to review your situation carefully with you, and give you some guidance.
Go hire a lawyer, and figure out what you want to do.
If you would like, give me a call; I am in northern New Jersey. I will be happy to discuss this with you; the telephone consultation will be free.
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