Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Should Child Have Cell Phone From Out of State NCP?

My son stopped using the cell phone

I provide him here in NJ several

months ago. Recently, his behavior

became very negative and DYFS got

involved after he physically assaulted

me again.

We discovered that the husband of

the non-custodial parent (NCP) who

lives in CA had sent him a �secret

cell phone�. My son has been talking

much of his �prime directive�. This

involves going to live in CA with the

NCP until he is an adult. The NCP

has refused to go to court to request

this. There are reasons why she

could not succeed there.

As a recent scene involving the Police

and DYFS went down, my son gave

me his phone as he was admitted to

an intensive Care Psych. Ward. The

hospital discharged him in time for

his summer visit with the NCP in CA.

Now, I do not wish to give my son

who lives with me in NJ a cell phone

with a CA area code on an account I

cannot monitor. Do I have a legal

right, derived from physical custody,

to specify which cell phone my son

uses? May I wait until my son

returns to NJ to return the CA cell

phone to the CA owner?


Asked on 7/30/07, 3:56 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Robert Davies The Davies Law Firm, P.A.

Re: Should Child Have Cell Phone From Out of State NCP?

I must admit, this is absolutely the first time I have ever heard something this bad. Prime Directive? inpatient psych ward?

If this comes to a fight, then the Judge will decide what is in the child's best interests. If taking away that cell phone will be good for your son, then the Judge would allow that.

Is it necessary to control what is happening, to help your son with his mental illness? Do you need to go back to court to change how things are set for visitation?

You really should talk to both a family law (divorce) attorney, and the doctor or doctors who are treating your son, to see what is best for him.

Please call my office if I can assist you. You can then decide how you would like to proceed.

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Answered on 7/30/07, 5:13 pm


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