Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Re: Do I have to see my child?

Generally, Courts do not mandate that a parent use whatever visitation he or she has either under an order or, in your case, by subsequent agreement (de facto). Your only option is to call their bluff and reduce your parenting time. If they file a motion then you'll address it in the only forum you'll get relief, if any.

Re: Do I have to see my child?

Technically, the Court Order would require you to do everything in it, including utilizing all of the parenting time, although it is rare that we see a Court enforcing more time. However, I have seen a Court require, when a parent argues that she needs to get a baby sitter for missed time, the payment of money to the other party. This issue could be decided any number of ways, depending on the way the facts are presented and the varying opinions of Judges. Keep in mind that this advice is based purely on the little bit ofinformation that you have given to me. There certainly may be other factors that would change my opinion. Further, no one can rely on advice from an attorney who has not been retained. Since it appears that you have not retained an attorney, you may want to contact an attorney (either me or someone else) to discuss your matter in more detail. Only then will you be able to rely on the advice. If you call me, [856-546-8010] mention Law Guru and your first one hour consultation will be free. Good luck! Rob Gleaner