Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Controlling Husband

I am in the middle of trying to seperate from my husband of 10 years. We have 3 children. My husband is refusing any type of seperation and is refusing to move out. What rights do I have to my children. He refuses to let me take them any where with me,including church. I am a good mom and would do anything for my kids, but he is refusing to let me take the kids anywhere or do anything with them unless he is around. He says its because I don't want to be married any more. He also has been invading my privacy by sneaking in my purse, reading my mail, and following me while I am out. However, my main concern is for my children, and I need to have time with them without him during this time, as it could take months before the divorce is finalized.


Asked on 10/25/99, 10:22 am

3 Answers from Attorneys
Robert Gleaner Robert A. Gleaner, P.C.

Re: Controlling Husband

Your questions cannot really be answered in this format. There are so many issues that need to be dealt with. Your options can only be considered after consultation with a New Jersey attorney who practices in family law. You will see that you will have several options, many of which may be acceptable to your husband and which will serve the interests of your children. Immediately consult with a NJ attorney. If you want me to meet with you, feel free to call me at 609-546-8010. This will be a free one hour consultation if you mention Law Guru. Good luck!

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Answered on 10/27/99, 9:40 am
Edward Weinstein Law Office of Edward R. Weinstein

Re: Controlling Husband

Thank you for your inquiry.

If your husband is following you while you are out, that may constitute stalking and/or harassment. Therefore, as an act of Domestic Violence, you may be able to obtain a restraining order which would prevent him from being present at the marital home. Please feel free to contact my office at 732-246-0909 to discuss further.

Very truly yours,

Edward R. Weinstein

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Answered on 10/27/99, 10:07 am
Daniel Clement Law Offices of Daniel Clement

Re: Controlling Husband

You should consult with an attorney. If the circumstances warrant, you may obtain an order granting you exclusive possession of the marital home during the divorce.

Daniel Clement

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Answered on 10/26/99, 3:21 pm


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