Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

I have a divorce decree that states I have reasonable rights of visitation. Nothing has gone thru child custody or probation for my visitation or child support. Both my ex and i live in the State of NJ. I reside in Camden county which is where we filed. She resides in Burlington County. She is living with a boyfriend, who is in the military, and my daughter. He received papers that he's to move to North Dakota in October, and she has opted to move with him, taking my daughter with her. My daughter is 3 years old, and not in school. She will be uprooted from every family member she knows to move to a state where there is no one there from her family. I obtained my papers to file a motion today from the Camden county courts. Should I file for joint custody, shared, or full custody knowing that I wont get it, but may receive more than the standard every summer and every other major holiday? I truly believe at my daughters age, she should be with her family, in a secure grounded enviornment, and not living the military lifestyle. Do I possibly have a leg to stand on to try to get her for a few months a year? I'm engaged, living with my fiance, with 2 other girls, and we both hold stable full time jobs. And will I be responsible for paying for travel for my visitations, even though my ew-wife opted to move 1500 miles away. I'm definitely looking to retain a lawyer for this case, but I want to know the possibilities of my outcome prior to finding a lawyer. Thank yo uall for your time. Shawn S.


Asked on 8/07/09, 11:43 pm

4 Answers from Attorneys

Jef Henninger, Esq Law Offices of Jef Henninger, Esq.

You said you would hire a lawyer, so I wouldn't file anything until you get one. I would actually try to prevent the move as it sounds like you do not agree with it. In order for her to move, she has to file for removal. You could always file a motion to prevent it if she doesn't file for it. Either way, I think you have a good shot here but there is a lot to discuss. You can call me at 732/247/3340.

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Answered on 8/13/09, 6:00 am
Gary Moore Gary Moore Attorney At Law

She need either your consent or the authorization of a court order to move out of state lawfully. You should not start a new custody action because your final judgment of divorce controls the custody issue. You must file a motion under the divorce case to modify the judgment as to applies to residential custody. You should not wait until she files for permission to move out of state with the child because you will seem to be reactive and not positive. You can get residential custody, based on the reasons which you have given, but no one can predict the

outcome of your application.

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Answered on 8/13/09, 7:29 am
Robert Gleaner Robert A. Gleaner, P.C.

Do not delay. You need an attorney immediately. It appears to me that you have a decent chance of prohibiting the move of the child. If nothing else, you should be able to get very liberal parenting time and have her pay for transportation costs.

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Answered on 8/13/09, 8:44 am
Philip Burnham, Esquire Burnham Law Group, LLC.

I woulld immediately file a motion to prevent her from leaving the state of New Jersey with your child. They are called relocation cases and are governed by the controlling statutory law is which is N.J.S.A. 9:2-2 and the precedential case in the state of NJ is Baures v. Lewis, 167 N.J. 91 (2001). The Baures case looks at 12 factors, and the facts of your case need to be applied to Baures.

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Answered on 8/13/09, 11:13 am


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