Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Divorce,custody,
I am in ten year marriage, we are mutually not in love with each other any more for 8 of the ten years i have been staying for th e sake of my 2 sons who i love more than life and she knows it. I am the parent who teaches them , give them spiritual guidance, do homework with them coach and teach them team sports , cook dinner for them, make su re the y are in bed it is me w ho is more like t he mother should be .She is the parent who yells at them has no patience with them and bad mouths me in their presence and to them behind my back . My question is do you think this will have any bearing on me getting full custod y of my sons if i divorce her. She is also unemployed she does daywork. She is not physically abusing them but she is verbally abusing us all.

Asked on 3/03/08, 1:52 pm

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Robert Davies The Davies Law Firm, P.A.

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Re: Divorce,custody,

Your questions are reasonable, and important, and complicated. It is not possible to give you a short and simple answer.

You really need to sit down with an attorney and get some guidance. The decisions you make now will have a profound, serious and long lasting effect upon you and your children.

Some thoughts (and these are only general statements, NOT intended to guide your decisions):

You are in the beginning or middle of a divorce.

You have a job. You may have a house. you may have savings, pension, credit card bills, and other things to deal with.

Your spouse may have a job.

You may have a child (children), and child support and college tuition needs to be paid. That is measured in tens of thousand of dollars.

Nothing that an attorney can say over this bulletin board can come close to helping you solve your problems. Careless actions by you will likely cost you thousands of dollars, make your life more difficult, and possibly cause additional harm to the child (children).

Hire an attorney. Go to an experienced divorce attorney located reasonably near you, and pay the attorney to review your situation carefully with you, and give you some guidance.

If you would like, give me a call; I am in northern New Jersey. I will be happy to discuss this with you; the telephone consultation will be free.

My contact information can be obtained from the links below, just click on the Attorney Profile link. Let my secretary know you found me through LawGuru.

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Answered on 3/03/08, 1:56 pm

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