Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Divorce,custody,property
I am in a 13 year marriage my wife and i have not had any romantic relations in 5 years due to mutual non existing feelings my concern is my sons whom live with us and i am a very big part of theier lives they are the reason for staying in a loveless marriage i feel if i divorce her she will get custody(women generally do) she says negative things about me to my sons who are 9 and 10 i believe she will bad mouth me to my boys in a effort to hurt me they love me very much as i do them and i am really scared about this. She does not work except for cleaning jobs she does . What are my chances of getting my boys and will i have to support her and pay the mortgage as well as child support if i dont get full custody how doest this work.
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Divorce,custody,property
Your questions are reasonable, and important, and complicated. It is not possible to give you a short and simple answer.
You really need to sit down with an attorney and get some guidance. The decisions you make now will have a profound, serious and long lasting effect upon you and your children.
Some thoughts (and these are only general statements, NOT intended to guide your decisions):
You are in the beginning or middle of a divorce.
You have a job. You may have a house. you may have savings, pension, credit card bills, and other things to deal with.
Your spouse may have a job.
You may have a child (children), and child support and college tuition needs to be paid. That is measured in tens of thousand of dollars.
Nothing that an attorney can say over this bulletin board can come close to helping you solve your problems. Careless actions by you will likely cost you thousands of dollars, make your life more difficult, and possibly cause additional harm to the child (children).
Hire an attorney. Go to an experienced divorce attorney located reasonably near you, and pay the attorney to review your situation carefully with you, and give you some guidance.
If you would like, give me a call; I am in northern New Jersey. I will be happy to discuss this with you; the telephone consultation will be free.
My contact information can be obtained from the links below, just click on the Attorney Profile link. Let my secretary know you found me through LawGuru.
Disclaimer: Your question and any response does NOT create an attorney-client relationship between you and this law firm. You can not rely on the statements made by an attorney given over the internet. The exact facts of your situation, including facts which you have not mentioned in your question, may completely change the result for your situation.
Re: Divorce,custody,property
I would need more information before I can give you a better answer. It is more than just who has a better job. My initial consultations are always free, so call me at 732/247/3340 so I can get the info that I need.
Re: Divorce,custody,property
Please call me to discuss your questions.
Gary Moore, Esquire
Hackensack, New Jersey
www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com
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