Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Emancipation of 20 yr old son
So what's the deal here? One person says the age of emancipation in NJ is 18, tells the kid there is nothing to file, and says his parents can even throw him out without any visible means of support. One says you have to prove they can support themselves. One says emancipation can even be reversed. So do you file a motion for a 20 yr old who will be 21 in a few months, living with his mother, and currently employed right out of a computer Tech School or what??? I am extremely confused, and have NEVER won any court battle in the State of NJ, so I would not be looking forward to doing battle with the ex again!
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Emancipation of 20 yr old son
Every dog has his day. If your child has finished or left school and is employed full time you can terminate any support order by filing a motion with the court. If there is no order
that is the end without anything being done by you. You must remember that a judgment of divorce is also an order.
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Gary Moore, Esquire
Hackensack, New Jersey
www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com
Re: Emancipation of 20 yr old son
First, a child is never automatically emancipated, you must go to court. Second, the age of 18 is important, but it alone does not emancipate the child. I suggest you get an attorney to handle this for you the right way as you never know what issues can come up.
I just won a case yesterday like this where the other side brought up some interesting issues which may have caused me to lose the case if I was in front of the wrong judge. Luckily, the person hearing the case understood that law and was not swayed by such garbage. It also helped that I knew the law even if I didn't know the issue was going to be brought up.
I'm sure not what attorneys you are talking about, but I can tell you that I read all of the attorneys that post on this board and we are usually always in agreement so I doubt you would have had several attorneys on this board saying different things.
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Re: Emancipation of 20 yr old son
Gary and Jef are right on, as usual. You need to file the motion, and persuade the judge that the young man is emancipated, which generally means he is self supporting. You seem to indicate that your son is working and earning enough to live on. He does not get to live with Mom and have her collect a check from you until he collects a check from Social Security.
However, you still have to show that he is independent. He (more likely she) may fight you. Maybe not. Some of mine do, some just want the arrears and dont fight the motion to emancipate.
Find an experienced divorce lawyer who handles the county where you were divorced.
If you would like, give me a call; I am in northern New Jersey. I will be happy to discuss this with you; the telephone consultation will be free.
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Gary and I are in Bergen County, Jef is further south.
Re: Emancipation of 20 yr old son
Now you have 4 lawyers who are pretty much in agreement. If indeed you can establish that your son is employed and about to be 21, in my opinion, you will now have your first Court win. A Motion should be filed and these facts presented to the Court. Then, the Judge will make a decision based on all of the facts presented.
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do so, mention Law Guru and your first one hour of time will be free. Good luck! Rob Gleaner