Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Ex-Fiancee' will not leave
I purchased my home three years ago on my own after my divorce. I put $100,000. down on it. 2 years later I met someone and let him move in.Things are not working out I am having a hard time trying to get him to leave. He is threatning me with things such as He wants money l/2 of what my house is worth? He wants money back for some of the bills he paid while he lived with me. Is he entitled to any of this after living with me for only 2 years? I also caught him meeting women on the internet. Personally I think he is a con!! he has always lived off of and with people and never owned anything including a house or a car!!! I am a single mother with a 10 yr old, I can't afford to give him anything and I don't think I should!!! we were engaged for 1 year out of the 2 years he lived with me, but i broke it off and gave him the ring back? He drinks a lot and recently started to get very nasty towards me and harassing me as well. Do I owe him anything? and how can i get him to leave, so that he will not try to take anything else from me.
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Ex-Fiancee' will not leave
From the limited facts, it doesn't sound like he has any rights to stay if you want him out.
As far as the alleged domestic violence, I would suggest you file a restraining order again him.
How do you file a restraining order?
Monday through Friday between 8:30 a.m. and 3:30 p.m., except on a holiday, you can go to the domestic violence unit of the Family Division and apply for the Order. Court employees will help you file the papers on forms they will provide.
If it is after the end of the court day, a holiday, or a weekend, you can go to your local police department to obtain an order. They have the forms and can call a judge to get an order that starts immediately. You will be asked to speak to the judge by telephone, unless the judge chooses to come to the court to hear your testimony directly.
If you need immediately assistance there is a domestic violence hotline, One 800, 572 and 7233, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
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Re: Ex-Fiancee' will not leave
Is his name on anything? If the house is all yours then its all yours! If he doesn't want to leave, call the police. Tell them about how he is abusing you and that you want to file charges against him.
You may run into some problems if he gets an attorney for any of this as it doesn't seem like you have one. While I think you will be ok in the end, he could really cause some problems for you in the meantime. If you can afford an attorney, I suggest you do so. Otherwise, call legal services and see if they can help you.
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Re: Ex-Fiancee' will not leave
You owe him nothing and he owns nothing. He merely paid rent by paying bills.
If you want him out that is easy. If he threatens you or harasses you those are acts of domestic violence and you should file a domestic violence complaint requiring him to stay away.
Call me if you like.
Gary Moore, Esquire
Hackensack, New Jersey
www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com
Re: Ex-Fiancee' will not leave
You need to be aware of your rights under the Domestic Violence laws. If he is abusing and/or harrassing you, call the police and have him kicked out. Further, from what you have indicated, it appears that you owe him nothing. He was a roomate, paying some bills. If his name is on nothing, he gets nothing.
Keep in mind that this advice is based purely on the little bit of information that you have given to me. There certainly may be other factors that would change my opinion. Further, no one can rely on advice from an attorney who has not been retained. Since it appears that you have not retained an attorney, you may want to contact a Family Law attorney (either me or someone else) to discuss your matter in more detail. Only then will you be able to rely on the advice. If you call me, mention Law Guru and your first one hour consultation will be free. Good luck! Rob Gleaner