Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

If i file a motion to move out of newjersey with my children

I have been in the courts a few times with my ex husband and i recently got remarried in feb03, i have 3 children.. daughter thats 19 now and 2 sons 14, 15. and my ex husband lives 5 minutes away and he hasnt seen the children nor call him for 6 months until may22,2003 when he called the children to tell them there grandfather died ,he told the kids he would call them in few days which he hasnt since then, i have been loggin everything, My husband and i have decided to move to alabama to buy a home and i know i have to put a motion to move out of state which my ex will give me trouble with it and the kids wanna move to ALabama which i gave them the option if they didnt want to go they can live with there father which they told me they wanna stay with me and move..do you think i would have any trouble with the judge in ocean county? I was divorced in ocean county and was wondering if i could move these papers to Alabama? I know my ex would purposely motion petty things for me to fly back to Newjersey to try to ruin my life.. Can it be done?

Please let me know

Thank you


Asked on 7/16/03, 9:25 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

Robert Gleaner Robert A. Gleaner, P.C.

Considerations upon move from New Jersey

Your answer cannot be easily given. However, in general, your proposed move would be a substantial change of circumstance and consideration needs to be given to an accomodation to the parenting time of the distant parent. If parenting time is not amicably resolved between you and your ex, then a Court will need to consider many factors, including who will bear the cost of transporting the child(ren) back and forth [either with or without a parent], when this will occur and how often. There is no hard and fast rule and the manner in which this is handled is different from case to case. Certainly the Judge will give substantial consideration to the lack of parenting time while the father was close by. However, all factors will be considered. Keep in mind that this advice is based purely on the little bit of information that you have given to me. There may be other factors that would change my opinion. Further, no one can rely on advice from an attorney who has not been retained. If you have not retained an attorney, before you take any action, you should contact an attorney (either me or someone else) to discuss your matter in more detail. Only then will you be able to rely on the advice. I will be happy to assist you. However, you need to call me at 856-546-8010. If you mention Law Guru, there will be no charge for your first consultation. Good luck! Rob Gleaner

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Answered on 7/16/03, 9:38 am
Bruce Matez Gerstein Grayson, LLP

Re: If i file a motion to move out of newjersey with my children

You must obtain permission to move out of state from the Court. However, the burden is not very onerous and, based upon the facts you have provided, it seems that you should be granted permission to move. As far as the jurisdiction issue, once you have permanently relocated to Alabama and have been there for 6 months, the custody and child support issues can be transferred there, as long as the Court in New Jersey relinquishes jurisdiction. However, all other issues would remain under New Jersey's jurisdiction. If you would like to further discuss this matter, please feel free to contact my secretary, Debbie, at 856-795-6700 to schedule a consultation.

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Answered on 7/16/03, 10:04 am


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