Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Generally, when a parent brings up an issue of the other parent's boyfriend or girlfriend (a.k.a., "paramour"), the court will look at whether the paramour presents any risk of harm to the parties' children. Separated or divorced parents are allowed to date and, given a reasonable amount of time, introduce the children to their paramours. However, if a paramour has a history of drug abuse, sexual abuse, child abuse, or other extenuating circumstance, then the other parent may seek intervention from the court, and the court may restrict whether the children are allowed around the paramour. Without knowing any more facts about your case or reviewing the relevant paperwork, it sounds like a 10-year-old shoplifting misdemeanor charge isn't going to affect your girlfriend's custody and visitation with her kids. DISCLAIMER: Please be advised that this is general information for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice, nor does it create an attorney-client relationship. It is strongly advised that you contact a local attorney to obtain legal advice specific to your case.