Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Grandparent has boy-mother lives away

In NJ- grandparent has boy living with

her- mother brings boy in and out of

grandparent and lives 1 hr away. Mom

switched school w/

grand, then to Mom - back

to school at grand loca.

Son is part time at grand. Part time at

mom according to school

I have legal custody.

Q:

Can I make the school not allow

grandmother to make decisions and

exclude her on all points.

Q:

Can I force them to include me via the

JOD?

Due to focus on divorce and her ability

to muddle all mediation, ESP etc, at

trial, I reserved my right to make

application for physical custody

upon good cause to modify.

DYFS involved for 17 months, new case

filed by the grandmother last month

against mother for neglect. then

grandmother filed for temp custody

against the two parents. Hearing is jan

16th.

Problem- I have been living out of state

since May 2005. Ex-wife was supposed

to move and agreed. Sent all her

belongings then she filed for divorce 5

months later. Contact blocked always

Q:

Has there been case where judge

will grant temp custody to me with legal

custody - DYFS is attending

hearing. The evidence is high against

both grand and mother.

I do have an attorney -worrying


Asked on 1/05/07, 1:28 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Jef Henninger, Esq Law Offices of Jef Henninger, Esq.

Re: Grandparent has boy-mother lives away

If you have an attorney, then I would rather not step on his or her toes. When you have an attorney, you have to trust him or her. If you can't and are second guessing his or her decisions, then its time to get a new attorney regardless of their skills. If the trust is gone, things aren't going to work.

I suggest you voice your concerns with your attorney and figure out where the two of you are going here. If you cannot patch things up, its time to move on.

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Answered on 1/05/07, 10:21 pm


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