Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

I married a guy from India and had a baby with him. He left me while I was at work and took the baby back to India with him. I am a caucasian women and have no authoirity to live in India. I am a usa citiznen. I want to file for divorce and get custody of my child. I am in usa in the NY area will India court up hold a custody arrangement if the usa courts say that I should have the child because I know in India the Father gets custody of the child. Or should I look for an attorney for custody in India or usa? We were married at my aunts house by a priest. But my husband is Hindu. We are legally married in the usa but never registered the marriage in India. Should I file for Divorce in usa and then go for custody of child in usa or India? If the Judge decides because my baby is under 5 years old to give me custody will he make a stay order upon husband request even if I am not a citizen of India? Should I file a custody hearing first in India or usa or both places at the same time?


Asked on 9/27/09, 7:10 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Gary Moore Gary Moore Attorney At Law

India recently became a signatory to the Hague Convention, a treaty among a large number of nations which requires the signatories to recognize the child custody claims of parents from other countries in the courts of the nations. You can get your divorce here and enforce it in India.

Additionally, there are criminal laws in New Jersey which prohibit removing a child from New Jersey on a permanent basis without the other parent' consent or an authorizing court order. You could have a criminal warrant issued for his arrest and potentially acted on in India.

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Answered on 10/02/09, 8:18 pm
Robert Davies The Davies Law Firm, P.A.

I have taken a look, and the US State Department website says that India is NOT a party to the child abduction provisions of the Hague Convention.

http://travel.state.gov/family/abduction/country/country_4441.html

However, I am not certain.

You can get a divorce in New Jersey, seek a court order for custody of your child, and pursue this.

This is a horrible situation. I would like to help you with the New Jersey part of it, and help you to organize your efforts in India.

Give me a call if you would like to talk it over. The telephone discussion will be free of charge, and I will let you know what I believe I can do to assist you further. My contact information can be obtained from the links below, just click on the Attorney Profile link. Let my secretary know you found me through LawGuru.

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Answered on 10/05/09, 10:34 am


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