Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Recently my husband and I got into fight which ended with him getting physical. I lost my temper and called the cops. They came, saw a bruise and arrested him. That's when I realized the gravity of the situation. I told them to set him free but they said I was no longer in the picture and its between the state of NJ and him. I didn't press charges or ask for TRO but the judge gave TRO. The next hearing is coming up soon and I have a couple of questions. I had also told the cops that this had happened before which is true but he never hurts me real bad. He is extremely well educated and has degrees from top notch US universities. He has a great career and a good job. This recent incident happened after a long, long time. He was on the right track in trying to keep his temper under control. I don't want this one incident to tarnish his entire life. I want him to be freed of all charges. My questions are:
1. Is it absolutely essential for me to be present at the hearing? Its between the state of NJ and him. Will it serve both our purpose better if I stay away? And I want all charges against him dropped.
2. If I retract my earlier statement about past incidents, can he drag me to court later on for making false statements to the police about him?
My dilemma is that while I don't want to get him in trouble, I want to protect myself from future harm from him. Since the TRO I don't know what his mental state is. That is if my trying to help him will backfire later on.
2 Answers from Attorneys
You seem to be conflicted. In court, only one direction is possible, but it is possible to resolve the matter without his being damaged in his reputation and with restraints on his furure conduct.
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You need the advice of an experienced divorce attorney. Call me, I can assist. You also need support and guidance from a psychologist or social worker who is very experienced in helping women who are victims of domestic violence.
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