Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Relocate
My son is 4yrs old. His father has not seen him since Feb. 2, 2005. He does pay child support however I believe its only because he had gotten arrested, had to pay $1000 to me to get out of jail & now its taken out of his check. After that he still never tried for any visitation. He has seen our son a total of 3 times his whole life. I want to move to NC w/ my current bf who i've been dating a yr & a half. He wants to be a father to my son & my son absolutely loves him. Even calls him daddy sometimes. Do you think i'll have trouble getting the court to allow me to relocate? If so, what could I do in order to help them see it would be better for my son to be w/ someone who is there for him not only moneywise but also emotionally & is there to spend time w/ him.
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Relocate
children who are natives of the State of New Jersey may not be removed from the jurisdiction without the consent of both parties or appropriate Court order. Assuming that your son's father doesn't consent and a Court order is required, then the custodial parent seeking the move must: (1) establish that a sincere, good faith reason exists for the out-of-state move; and (2) whether the move will be in the best interests of the children or will adversely affect the visitation rights of the non-custodial parent. This will have to be established through filing a petition and a subsequent hearing.
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Re: Relocate
The other attorney detailed the procedure for you already. I strongly suggest you get an attorney to help you as it can be difficult to handle the legal issues without a formal legal education.
Re: Relocate
The NJ Supreme Court has made it easier for a parent to relocate if there is some kind of accomodaton of the other parent's parenting rights. Since the child is young and has little realtionship with the child the ususal long summer visitor holiday visit may not work. Your standard is not a hard one to ovbercome to get the court's permission to move but unless the other parent agrees (in writing preferably) you willto go to the family court to get a court order. You need to see a lawyer familiar with these matters. A hearing will be required if he resists.