Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey
Restraints, Must I file Divorce?
My husband attacked me. Do I need to file for divorce in
order to file for civil restraints? My husband wanted me
to drop the TRO, but I still needed protection. Is the
divorce filing necessary for the docket # ? My attorney
advised that in order to get the restraints, I needed to
file for the divorce, is this true? I live in NJ.
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Restraints, Must I file Divorce?
You do not have to be divorced, file for a divorce, or be separated to file for a TRO. You can go to court, and file for a TRO.
AMW
Re: Restraints, Must I file Divorce?
You say you have an attorney handling this matter. If you don't understand advice the attorney has given you, you need to ask your existing attorney for clarification. If that is not satisfactory, or you disagree with the advice, you need to consider getting a new attorney.
In general, if you have been "attacked", you should file a criminal complaint in addition to any other actions you might take.
In general, you do not need to file for a divorce to get a TRO. A divorce can only be filed for if you happen to be married to the other person. Obviously, you don't have to be married to apply for a TRO if someone is committing domestic violence against you. Therefore, you don't LEGALLY need to file for divorce before applying for a TRO if you happen to be married. However, as a practical matter, your attorney might feel it is appropriate to proceed this way, in your case. Again, you need to talk with your attorney.
I strongly recommend that you consult with an attorney immediately so that you can explore your legal rights, obligations, and options. If you wish to discuss retaining my services, contact me at:
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Re: Restraints, Must I file Divorce?
If you had restraints you must have filed a domestic violence complaint. You should proceed to testify at the hearing for a permanent order
restraining your husband from coming near you and/or committing further acts of domestic violence. If you have caused the domestic violence complaint to be dismissed you have given up your right to such restraints, indicating that you are not fearful that your husband will harm you. Filing a divorce complaint leads to a divorce. The Domestic Violence Act was enacted by
the legislature to make it easier to obtain an order of protection. It is not so easy to obtain restraints against acts of violence outside the
domestic violence scenario.
You should consult with an attorney. This advice relies upon the information which you have provided. If you have left out some important information or mistated some fact this advice might be entirely wrong.
Gary Moore, Esquire
Hackensack, New Jersey
800 273 7933
www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com