Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Can my son move away

I am asking this question on behalf of my Friend. He has a 14 year old son with a women that he lived with when the child was born. They never married and he moved out after 7 years. He has been paying child support all through the years. She is now asking his permission if it would be OK for her to relocate to North Carolina with their son for next Fall. She explained further that she has a chance of advancing her career if she relocates. He lives in New York and they live in New Jersey.. He is very close with his son and takes him frequently on weekends. He did not give her an answer because he is unsure if he can legally stop her. Does she need his permission to move that far away?


Asked on 9/29/00, 1:11 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Michael Markowitz Michael A. Markowitz, PC

Re: Can my son move away

Under New York law, both marriage and child support have little to do with visitation. The courts look at what the best interest is of the child to determine custody and visition.

There is a presumption in the law that a child should be raised by both a mother and a father. And if the father is a regular part of the child's life, the courts are reluctant to break that relationship.

In this particular case the father can apply for court ordered visitation, and address the issue of her leaving to North Carolina. It would then be up to the mother to demonstrate that her interest in advancing her career exceed the child's interest of being raised by a father.

Of course, the court cannot order her to stay in New York. However, the court may grant the father custody.

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Answered on 10/30/00, 8:58 am
Jonathan J. Braverman Jonathan J. Braverman, Attorney & Mediator

Re: Can my son move away

Under New York law, she could be stopped from relocating, pending a hearing. Since the mother lives in New Jersey, the law of that state would apply.

NY used to have a "special circumstances" standard for relocation cases. That has now been discarded. The courts have recognized that we live in a mobile society. Therefore, the focus is on whether the proposed move is in the best interets of the child, not the best interests of the parent who desires to relocate.

In effect, there is a whole new custody case.

Hope this helps.

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Answered on 11/25/00, 9:13 am


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