Legal Question in Family Law in New Jersey

Why should spouse receive equal percentage of property division?

My wife is trying to screw me. We were married for 19 years before she walked out on us for another man back in January. We had just moved into a new home 2 months before that. I have sole custody of our 2 kids who live with me in the home. I have paid for EVERYTHING related to the house..... mortgage, property taxes, all utilities, etc. BUT, we both have our names on the title. Now, she wants her ''half'' of the home's worth (equity). I neither have the cash with which to buy her out nor do I want to sell the home and move because my children are extremely stable in their present environment. Can she force me to do either one of these? She was the one who decided to leave. I think it's extremely unfair that a spouse can jump from one relationship to another and expect some type of renumeration each time in the process. Is there any way to fight this request? There should be a law in NJ that if a spouse leaves a relationship he/she should be entitled to NOTHING! Maybe that would force them to think twice about leaving on a whim and also force them to make a sincere attempt to work things out for the sake of the children. Do I have a leg to stand on with her?


Asked on 12/20/03, 1:12 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

Bruce Matez Gerstein Grayson, LLP

Re: Why should spouse receive equal percentage of property division?

Unfortunately for you, marital fault does not play into the distribution of marital assets. Therefore, she is likely going to be entitled to some % of the value of the marital home. However, if there are other assets to be distributed, you may be able to use credits and set-offs so you don't have to sell or buy her out directly. You will need to look at creative solutions. If you would like to further discuss this matter, please feel free to contact my secretary, Debbie, at 856-795-6700 for a consultation.

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Answered on 12/22/03, 9:15 am
Robert Gleaner Robert A. Gleaner, P.C.

Re: Equitable Distribution when spouse leaves

Equitable Distribution does not necessarily mean "equal" or 50/50 distribution. There may be factors which dictate an uneven split. Also, even if she ultimately gets 50%, she may be required to wait to get her money until the children are emancipated or receive payments over a period of time. The bottom line is that there are many ways that this can be worked out or that a Court may determine the division of the property and a careful analysis needs to be made of all factors before a strategy can be made. Keep in mind that this answer is given based on the little bit of information that you have provided. My answer may change based on other factors. And no one can rely on the advice of any attorney who has not been retained. Before you do anything further, you should consult with an attorney. Only then will you be able to rely on the advice. If you want a consultation with me, feel free to call me at 856-546-8010. Because you have been referred through Law Guru, your first one hour consultation will be free. Good luck! Rob Gleaner

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Answered on 12/20/03, 3:46 pm
Gary Moore Gary Moore Attorney At Law

Re: Why should spouse receive equal percentage of property division?

Your wife will probably receive half of the value of your joint marital property, with the exclusion of property acquired by gift or inheritance or prior to the marriage. The sale of the house can be delayed until the children reach adulthood. She will be required to pay child support and may be willing to trade part of the child support obligation for a portion of her half of the marital estate. Whether you have to pay alimony to her and how much and how long depends on many factors including whether she remarries or lives with and is supported by another man, but I would expect that her child support obligation might cancel out her entitlement to alimony.

You need specific advice based on a personal consultation with an attorney in order to have really accurate and reliable legal advice on your situation.

Gary Moore, Esquire

Hackensack, New Jersey

800 273 7933

www.garymooreattorneyatlaw.com

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Answered on 12/20/03, 8:31 pm


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