Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in New Jersey

Are you the Executor? Assuming that you are, you seem to be of the impression that you are required to have meetings. You are not. You should seek the advice of counsel so you are fully aware of what your duties are as an Executor.

Keep in mind that this answer is given based on the scanty information you have provided. My answer may change based on other information. Further, you cannot rely on this answer since you have not retained me as your attorney. To be sure that you have accurate information and direction, you should consult with an attorney. Feel free to call me at 856-546-8010. Mention Law Guru and your first consultation will be "no charge". Good luck. Rob Gleaner

I somewhat agree with Bob, but your question is unclear as to what position you hold - executor or heir? I agree that meetings are not mandatory, but may be required under certain circumstances, if the Executor cannot make the decision without input from the heirs. If required, usually they are only attended by the parties in interest, not spouses, just for the reason you specify. It may be necessary to retain an attorney to assist in arriving at a decision and to maintain decorum. As an alternative, separate telephone calls and/or letters can be used. This is a response to an Internet question and the reply is not intended to be legal advice or as creating an attorney-client relationship.