Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in New Jersey

My condolences for your loss.

This situation may be governed by Florida law, if that is where he resided at the time of death, and certainly where he was cremated. Did he appoint an agent for disposition of his remains? If so, that document may resolve the issue. If not, perhaps you and the children could reach some kind of agreement so that you each receive a portion of the ashes to keep and dispose of as you each desire. It may not be ideal, but it would be better than nothing and better than fighting in court. With a signed agreement document, the Crematory will probably follow those directions.

You may need to involve a Florida attorney to assist you.

THIS RESPONSE IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE, SINCE I DO NOT HAVE ALL OF THE INFORMATION THAT WOULD BE REQUIRED, AND I DO NOT HAVE A REPRESENTATION AGREEMENT WITH YOU.

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