Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in New Jersey
I am about to be married to a NJ resident and homeowner. I am investing money in the house to do a remodel. We both have 4 children from previous marriages including one minor. We ultimately want all our children to inherit the property equally while ensuring undisturbed occupancy for life for each other. What's the best way to write our wills? Please consider tax implications.
Thank you.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Please don't do this yourselves. Consult lawyers about a pre-nuptial agreement and also about your estate plans. With children from previous marriages, you need to do careful estate planning so that your respective children are adequately protected. If you use off the shelf forms or otherwise try to DIY, including forms on this site or LegalZoom, for example, your children will have to deal with the mess and will not get what they are entitled to and what you would have wanted. It will be too late to fix when you are gone. Any house that you are investing in should have a co-owners' agreement. Don't get into it without adequate agreements in place. Please!
This is not meant to discourage you from your plans. I wish you both happiness. Just take care of the planning you should do with professional (lawyers') help, first.
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