Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in New Jersey

This is a typical situation where the heirs cannot agree or understand the delays. Of course a year to handle a relatively simple estate does seem a little long. If your brother expended any money assisting Mom that he was not repaid, he could put in a claim. While he may not be entitled to an hourly rate as caretaker, he could be reimbursed for any out-of-pocket expenses he incurred plus mileage if he drove Mom around, like to doctors. Since your sister has been on your backs and seems to be pushing for her share of the estate, it might be a good idea to have the Court review and approve any reimbursement claims. Plus, as Executor, your brother is entitled to a fee for his services. I suggest this should also be approved by the Court. Finally, since your sister may contest the sales price as well, it might be a good idea to have the Court approve the sale as well. Perhaps the suggestion that the Court look at everything, and the time delays and extra legal fees involved, some of which will reduce your sister's share of the estate as well, may act to calm her down and be more agreeable to these matters without going to Court. Good Luck.