Legal Question in Education Law in New Mexico
love
i like a guy thats married and has kids, sometimes we talk about how much we like each each other is it wrong?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: love
A relationship with a man who is already married is always going to be one sided. He will always be taking; you will always be giving. If the relationship is platonic, then there might not be anything wrong with having a married friend. But while you use the word "like" in your question, you use the word "love" in your subject. I believe you are headed down a dangerous path.
If a man is honorable, he will honor his commitments to those whom he has promised to love, honor and obey. If he is not, he will break those promises and eventually he'll pay for that error.
If you want to be in a bad relationship for a long time, with no hope of a better life, by all means, move forward. If not, then find someone with character.
Good luck
PS: I would not ordinarily have approved this message because it doesn't ask a legal question, but since it had already been answered, I thought I should give my two cents worth too.
Re: love
This is not a legal question, so YES it is wrong.
Would you want him to do that to you?
Why not find someone who hasn't promised someone else (his wife and children) that he will treat them well and honorably?