Legal Question in Family Law in New Mexico
Grandmother needs crisis help with special needs granddaughter
My sister has her 8 year old granddaughter after the mother left her there 9 mths ago, she has some legal guardian abilities, but not full custody yet. She needs to relocate immediately,as her husband abandoned her but she is afraid to leave the county with her granddaughter for fear of ''kidnapping''. (Her Daughter wil NOT AGREE to give full custody at this time.) Is there some emergency petition that could be filed to allow her to move to another county legally with the child and be with sisters (us) that can help her and provide a support system? She is alone, no job. Granddaughter gets SSI. If she could move closer to us we could help her somewhat. There is a lot more to this including her safety and the childs because of her son who is recently involved with drugs.. so she needs to get away from there ASAP. Any advice greatly appreciated as we are so concerned about her safety. I realize this is complicated and not easy to explain in a few words. She is working with free ''legal aid'' but they gave a time frame of 2-3 mths, which we fear is a danger to remain there that long. Any ideas to get her moved here legally would be great. Thank you, Linda Garcia
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Re: Grandmother needs crisis help with special needs granddaughter
Linda
From what you described I cannot see that there is any "kidnapping" issue if your sister moves to another county. If she is concerned that her daughter is going to call the police let her call the police. When a parent leaves a child with family members and doesn't come back it is not kidnapping when the family member moves. If your sister wants to do the right thing she could call the Children Youth and Families Division of Human Services Department and report her daughter for abandoning her child. Your sister could also call the police and report her daughter for abandoning the child. What your sister is doing by taking care of the child is not criminal - it is loving and the morally right thing to do. What your sister's daughter is doing is morally wrong and her actions violate both civil and criminal laws.
Now, some of my answer above is 'off the cuff' so to speak. Sure, your sister's daughter could call the police and she might even find a police officer willing to jump on a 'kidnapping' charge; however, I think that once a police officer or a judge heard the whole story (and I am relying on the short note you wrote as representing the truth) then I do not believe your sister will get into any trouble. I suspect that the worst thing that could happen is that your sister's daughter will take her child back.
Good Luck.
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