Legal Question in Family Law in New Mexico

New Mexico Rules Annotated. Go to http://public.nmcompcomm.us/nmpublic/gateway.dll/?f=templates&fn=default.htm click on NMRA, click on rules of procedure for the district courts, click on articles 4 and 5 to get the rules for service of process and response. That's the direct answer to your question.

The easier answer for you is to use the forms created by the supreme court for self-represented litigants in family law matters. find these at nmcourts.gov, legal documents, forms, domestic relations, dissolution of marriage forms, 4a-100 - where you will find instructions and forms for service of process. You can also go to your local district court and ask the clerk for the appropriate forms.