Legal Question in Criminal Law in New York

Possible Blackmail

I recently had an extramarital affair with someone that I met through a dating site. The girl was begging for financial assistance and said her car was being repo'd. I agreed to meet her at a hotel for a specific amount of money. We met for about an hour (I am not proud of it). Today I receive a text from a so called boyfriend that he found out, has kicked her out, and if I dont send thousands of dollars to her western union account he will send my wife the emails. I spoke to her on the phone as well and i'm sure she is lying. I want to know basically that if she continues this blackmail and I report her, am I in trouble for meeting her at the hotel? I am in NY. Thank you


Asked on 2/19/09, 4:01 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

Steven Czik CZIK LAW PLLC

Re: Possible Blackmail

You definitely need to get some good legal advice very very quickly.

We have experience handling these types of cases, however, we would need some more information before making a complete and proper determination. You are welcome to contact us for a free consultation.

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Answered on 2/23/09, 2:48 pm
Christopher Hoyt The Law Offices of Christopher W. Hoyt

Re: Possible Blackmail

You should speak with an attorney. An attorney should be able to work out a situation for you where you can report the matter to the police, if appropriate, while limiting any legal liability you have at the same time.

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Answered on 2/19/09, 5:03 pm
Robert Reuland Law Offices of Robert C. Reuland, P.C.

Re: Possible Blackmail

The only thing you did wrong, criminally speaking, is solicit prostitution -- at least that may be how the prosecutor might see it. It depends on the relationship with the woman. Was it a date or a "date"? In any event, the DA would probably be less interested in your transgression than the fact that you are being "threatened." Generally it is not considered blackmail to threaten to do something that is lawful, but in this case the "boyfriend" could be found to have attempted to commit larceny by way of extortion, which forbids someone from compelling another to give up money or property by threatening to do something calculated to instill fear that one's personal relationships may be damaged, in this case your relationship with your wife. I would contact a lawyer and then in all likelihood get the police involved.

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Answered on 2/19/09, 8:50 pm


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