Legal Question in Family Law in New York

''Betrothal'' versus ''Engagement''

Hey there everyone -- I'm researching a screenplay and this tangentially comes up. *Is* there a legal recognition of the (what seems to be pre-dominantly religious) idea of betrothal, as opposed to the more ''official'' concept of engagement? Or is this just splitting hairs? I guess I'm wondering if one is more binding than another, or if both / neither have any bearing on partnerships. I hope this makes sense. Thanks in advance for any responses.


Asked on 8/05/06, 5:11 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Debra Palazzo Law Offices of Debra Palazzo, LLC

Re: ''Betrothal'' versus ''Engagement''

Neither is legally binding.

Except, the promises made by one and relied upon by the other might be.

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Answered on 8/05/06, 11:04 pm
Phroska L. McAlister PHROSKA LEAKE McALISTER

Re: ''Betrothal'' versus ''Engagement''

Although today there is little distinction made between a Betrothal & Engagement, the terms and historical usuage reflect different "legal" principles.

"Betrothal" is an archaic term that actually refers to a third party (head of household, Church, Master etc..) giving permission and promising his "charge" to marry someone.

"Engagement" is a modern term that refers to two parties agreeing and promising to marry each other.

In the past "betrothal" was the only recognized way a "proper" woman could marry. A man and woman could not become "engaged" to marry each other without permission.

Good luck,

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Answered on 8/07/06, 6:37 pm


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